Silliness

I haven't been blogging like I told myself I would, not because I've been busy; more because I'm lazy than anything else. Plus I'm still in a bit of a holiday mode.

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Some people are amazingly silly. It's the only word to describe them. Not bitchy, whiny, stupid, two-faced, gullible or immature; just silly.

I know a girl who signifies the epitome of this. A while ago I may have taken her opinion into account and considered it, perhaps believed it. However, over time you learn enough about people to understand how their mind works and how they operate, their mannerisms, and even how they think.

After becoming really close to her, I found her to be of an obsessive nature (pretty much for every new popular culture fad or person that comes around) and constantly craving for reassurance that she belongs into a group of friends. If she hangs out with a particular group of, say, five people for one day, the people in it would almost certainly find themselves to be under some sort of identifying group name. Then there would be a push for constant reunions to commemorate that one day they had together.

Another thing I found was her constantly over-dramatic way of dealing with situations. She would react amazingly strongly against something very little and of virtually no connection to her. If there was one, god forbid, shit would hit the fan and she would be bursting to confide all details to, not one person, but pretty much anybody who asked, and more.

I don't think everyone has really felt that about her yet, because some people still take everything she says to them at face value. I remember at one point I did too, but it's just too ridiculous. Since knowing her my life has become tenfold more dramatic, but my relationship with her has very much quietened down now and I find I'm pretty much back in the swing of things as I had been in previously.

Perhaps now it can be observed exactly why I wouldn't think too much into her opinions and what she says. Not out of cattiness, but because of what I have divulged here, and evidenced from what she does. I've no reason to be biased against her. You may scoff at this, but this wasn't a post for me to bitch about her. It might be noted that the title is 'Silliness' and not 'Why I Dislike This Particular Girl'.

This girl is an example of somebody who I believe is, as I said before, the pinnacle of silliness. I'd be interested to hear your own definitions of it, and perhaps somebody (without naming names) who exemplifies those ideas.